Archive - Life Unoptimized

How I Accidentally Planned a Trip to Germany With Two Little Kids

An inside look at my slightly absurd travel planning style.

Jun 3 •

May 2025

3 Things This Week #8

A remote-feeling hike, an immersive dining experience, and an adult ballet class.

May 30 •

Summer 2025 Bucket List: San Diego Mom Edition

This season's vibe is playful, nostalgic, and a little lazy

May 27 •

3 Things This Week #7

A quietly satisfying movie, a solo hike, and a suspenseful read.

May 23 •

Creating Ritual: Small Birthday Traditions That Are Sticking

Low-effort things we're doing that I hope my kids remember fondly one day

May 20 •

3 Things This Week #6

Mother's Day recap, garden beginnings, and a wellness culture takedown.

May 16 •

Low-Key Motherhood: In Praise of the Simplified Birthday Party

Your permission slip to take a break from balloon arches and goodie bags

May 13 •

3 Things This Week #5

Finding joy in a reading light, playing with clay, and considering the thin line between self-care and submission.

May 9 •

The Beautifully Simple Salad Formula That Never Fails Me

I eat a version of this tasty-yet-effortless salad multiple days a week.

May 6 •

3 Things This Week #4

The delight of upcycling, my preschool beauty muse, and ancient coping techniques

May 2 •

April 2025

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